Many of us, when we feel stressed, also feel powerless to do anything about it. Often we persuade ourselves that it’s just part of life, and that we should be able to cope with “everyday stresses and strains”. WRONG – we all need stress management techniques if we are to live life to the full – be healthy, happy and be resilient.
First off – Stress is a normal psychological and physical reaction to the ever-increasing demands of life. In looking at the causes of stress, remember that your brain comes hard-wired with an alarm system for your protection. When your brain perceives a threat, it signals your body to release a burst of hormones to fuel your capacity for a response. This has been labeled the “fight-or-flight” response. Once the threat is gone, your body is meant to return to a normal relaxed state. Unfortunately, the nonstop stress of modern life means that your alarm system rarely shuts off. That’s why stress management techniques are so important. Stress management techniques can give you a whole range of tools to reset your alarm system.
Without stress management techniques, all too often your body is frequently on high alert. Over time, high levels of stress lead to serious health problems. Don’t wait until stress has a negative impact on your health, relationships or quality of life. Start practicing stress management techniques today – that work for you!
What I am going to share with you is some things that you can do, simply to help to raise your awareness and to help to manage and reduce stress by looking at the causes of your stress and then changing your thinking, behaviour and lifestyle!
The first step to coping with stress is identifying what stresses you. The following are a few of the common causes of stress:
The list goes on …
Your stress level will differ based on your personality and how you respond to situations. Some people let everything roll off their back. To them, work stresses and life stresses are just minor bumps in the road. Others literally worry themselves sick.
Once you’ve identified your stress triggers, you can start thinking about strategies for dealing with them. Identifying what aspect of the situation you can control is a good starting point and that includes your thinking, behaviour and lifestyle.
The most important step in changing your thinking is to stop putting up with feeling stressed and recognise the need for change. Stress causes a vicious cycle that eats away at your ability to think clearly and calmly about things – especially the things that are making you stressed in the first place.
Try to think afresh about your job / situation / family member – whatever it is that is stressing you and ask yourself ‘could I be doing this differently?’. Challenge unnecessary ‘rules’ that you or others have set and try to be more flexible in how you approach problems. If you’re not sure why you feel stressed, keep a ‘stress diary’. THEY REALLY DO WORK!!!!
Think about the ways you cope with time pressures, deadlines, responsibilities and change – you may need to develop a new mental approach to stop them overwhelming you.
Below are a few tips that are all linked to your lifestyle and behaviour…
The key to effective stress management and to building your resilience is practicing the techniques that work for you, regularly!
We really do hope this has heightened your awareness (for you and those around you) as to the importance of stress management techniques and most importantly makes a positive impact on your health and wellbeing.
If you need help with a stress diary we have a template that you can use, simply email: STRESS DIARY TEMPLATE and request one for FREE.
If you feel you would benefit from some 1-2-1 stress management coaching then please just ask – we have a tried and tested, 12 session coaching programme that can be delivered face to face or via telecoaching – simply pick what works best for you! To find out more simply call 01782 365 108 for a non obligation, stress-free chat!
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